The Art of Being You

The most effective way to master
Pleasure, Desire & Communication

"Re-wiring our Capacity to Respond"

Would You Like To Master All Your Relatings?

Somatic Consent is an engagement system which guides you to engage with yourself and others on the richest and deepest level.

It brings you into connection with your feelings and the sensations derived from your sense of touch in a transformative way.

It provides a neurological upgrade of your cognitive and emotional intelligence, somatic capacity, ability to feel and be authentically you.

Would you like to know how Somatic Consent can bring value to your life, your relationships and your professional practice as a practitioner or facilitator?

Together we’ll find out how Somatic Consent can support you to get where you want to be.

Book a  free Discovery Call with Matt where you’ll get clear step-by-step coaching you can implement into your life right away!  Curious? 

"So simple that the mind cannot deny it,
so profound that the heart never will."

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 The Somatic Consent App provides a playful inquiry into the nature of connection. It’ll help you fast track your practice of touch with the ‘3-Minute game’.  It’s a lot of fun to play alone or with others!

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Your neurological upgrade

This practice is both personal and collective, both scientific and spiritual. It allows you to become present and attentive in a deeper way than ever before. Somatic Consent guides you to consciously connect to yourself, others, and the world you live in.

About Teerha

Theertha is a relationship, sexuality and intimacy coach, facilitator and practitioner. She supports people in learning how to communicate, how to enjoy their skin, and how to deepen their experience of touch—while simultaneously inviting much more ease and freedom into their lives.

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This book is a must-have for relating, connection and sex.

It guides us from the unconscious states that break down relationship to ourselves and others—to one that truly
empowers, inviting physical and
spiritual orgasmic encounter like never before!

The 4 Essentials of Somatic Consent


Somatic Embodiment of Sensory In-flow

To give others permission to feel us needs the embodied base of being trustworthy to our limits.

Permission Line

We don't need to give anything to touch another person what we need is their permission to feel them.

Agreement Line

The end of pleasing to belong - no request, no action.

Interpersonal Being a Gift, Love and Care for Others

Where integrity meets surrender and generosity gratitude.



Permission Line

your action, for you | their action, for them

Agreement Line

your action, for them | Their action, for you

Interpersonal, Being a Gift, Love and Care for Others


Why Somatic Consent?

The Human Need for Intimacy

As human beings, we all need intimacy. We all want meaningful connection with those that are dear to us. But how many of us are actually keeping ourselves from this because of our conditioned ways of relating?

Shadows and Programmed Beliefs

We all developed unconscious survival strategies in order to feel accepted. 

Most of us have the neurological patterning that, “I do something to make you feel happy, so that you’ll love me and I’ll belong”.

We’ve been conditioned to believe we’re better people if our actions focus on giving for the sake of others—and that receiving through our own action is connected to selfishness, violation, abuse or other shadow behaviour.

But what if we’re also allowed to go into action for our own benefit—to receive pleasure—and that this isn’t at all selfish but greatly adds to the benefit of all involved?

Communication - The Pathway to Freedom

Somatic Consent offers engagement and communication tools to break old patterns, and learn how to respond to the world around in authentic ways. It helps you to establish the organic balance between desire and boundaries. You learn how to ask for what you really want, and how to go into an authentic action for your own benefit while respecting the limits of others.

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